THE MODERN ADDICTION TO
SPORTS AND WINNING.
My home
town soccer/football team lost again yesterday. It's not an unusual
outcome on a Saturday especially as they are going through a period of
augmentation after a pretty shitty fall from grace. Being a long term fan
of many losing or "nearly there" teams I have kind of settled down
and embraced the whole losing process. Sometimes you lose because the
other team was outstanding, sometimes you lose because of bad luck/preparation,
and sometimes you lose because your team is complete shit. However the
same outcomes can be applied to winning as well. Take a look at the NY
Jets this year, they were dismal but this could have been easily foreseen pre
season, the roster was a crapshoot mixed with a couple of good players and a
couple of terrible players. The team didn't help themselves starting the
season with a 2-1win record recording massive win against one of its league
rivals and a second win over another. The rest of the season was like being
forced to watch the Twilight Saga every Sunday for the next 14 weeks.
What
really gets me giggling though is these keyboard warrior, fifa generation, and
spoilt children/adults to take to the team’s message board to rant and
rave. The good old boro website Fly Me To The Moon www.fmttm.com is
always a good giggle post match. Within seconds there are messages
filling up the board, anger fuelled stumped remains of what were once fingers
beat their keyboards like a partner of Rihanna.
"What
a bag of effing turd, time to go Mogga" reads one. "Game over
ffs (for f*(ks sake) reads another. The more linguistical type
"Abject and humiliating performance.". Now in truth part of me
agrees with them, but growing up enjoying various types of sport I have come to
realise that losing, losing bad, and seasons you just have to give up on are
all just part of the game. It seems however in this day and age, there
are a hell of a lot of fans who seem to think losing is "not an
option", someone has to take the blame for every loss or every mistake,
where the hell did this come from? It may seem like I am ranting myself
here but I really am not. I am not happy with the Jets, the Boro, the NY
Rangers, Michael Bisping or that woman who puts too much milk in my coffee, but
I realised long ago that I have absolutely zero control over it..... Apart
from the coffee thing but she is hot and it’s the closest place to where I
work. You have to embrace everything in sport, the good and bad. If
a result leaves you wanting to put a fist through a wall you really need to
step away from the arena of sports. Whatever happened to losing graciously?
I am
simply trying to point out that I support all my teams to the fullest, if my
team made me angry too much that all I could do is rant. I would step away
from that sport for a couple of months.
Being
angry does not make you "a real fan". In actual fact I have a
friend who has been watching the Boro play since 1967, I have only known him 15
years, but I have only seen him get angry once at a match and that was two days
afterwards when he was reading an interview with one of the players and he
didn't believe their excuse for playing so badly.